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Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well

by Douglas Stone, Sheila Heen · Penguin / Harvard Negotiation Project

Companion to Difficult Conversations covering the receiving end. Sorts feedback into appreciation, coaching, and evaluation, names the truth, relationship, and identity triggers that make it hard to hear, and gives methods for extracting value from badly delivered criticism.

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